Birthdays and anniversaries are interesting and often bittersweet. We get a year older, we celebrate, and are a year closer to dying... but ever the optimists, we celebrate and that's how I like it. My Mum would have been 70 this year. I think about her everyday, often several times a day, but on her birthdays I am reminded of the years we've spent apart now, and that reminds me of the years we spent together...bittersweet. Anniversaries, are similar. They always seem t